PUMP UP YOUR SEX LIFE - Take Charge of Your Erectile Dysfunction 


Are You Ready to Radically Improve Your Sex by Learning How to Take Charge of ED?



What if You Could Enjoy Magnificent Sexual Intimacy 

and Feel Closer to Your Spouse in Just 5 weeks?


Even if:

✔️   You worry about your erections before, during and after sex.

✔️   You feel really ashamed about it.

✔️   You don’t know who to ask or how to get help.

✔️   You feel like you are the only one with this problem.

✔️   Your spouse is upset with you.

✔️   You're confused because you don’t have ED when you masturbate.

✔️   The erection pills don't help you.

✔️   You’re afraid your spouse/partner won’t want to be with you if you can’t get hard.


You Don't Have to Let ED Ruin Your Intimacy

ED is Hard on You and on Your Relationship

ED is a painful experience.

You know something is wrong but you don’t know how to fix it. 

It kills your sexual confidence and can make you feel like less of a man.

It impacts your relationship.

It would be easy to put your head in the sand and avoid sex, so kudo’s to you for researching how to fix your ED.  

It Fills You With Worry and all Sorts of BAD Feelings

It’s devastating when you can’t get an erection. It can make you feel ashamed.

It can feel like you are the only one struggling with ED.

It’s frustrating when it happens because you don’t know how to fix it. You feel like a failure.

Now you worry about your erection every time you have sex. It's all you can think about.

You wonder what will happen if you never get a normal erection again.

It’s even worse if your partner is upset with you or you worry they won’t want to be with you if you can’t get hard.

Imagine if Sex Was Different  

Imagine if you could have toe-curling sex without putting so much pressure on your erection.

What if you could confidently initiate sex and have a great time without worrying about ED?

What if you felt sexually desired?

What if you could expand your sexual repertoire to include other sensual and exhilarating things that didn't require a hard penis?

What if you and your spouse/partner worked together to create a magnificent and magical sex life that you both enjoyed?



Learn how this course will transform your intimacy

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You can have the most fabulous sex imaginable.

You can take charge of your ED.

Here's How to Take Charge of Your ED

Take the Course

You can take the course in two formats.  One is self-study only.  The second includes live group coaching with Dr. Heather.

Learn and Grown

Learn all about ED and sexuality. Apply what you learn to your relationship and sex life.

Transform Your Intimacy

Apply what you learn to create new and wonderful ways to approach sexual intimacy and develop strategies to take charge of your ED.

The Erectile Dysfunction Masterclass is the Only Course of its Kind


This is the only course of its kind that helps men and couples struggling with erectile dysfunction

go from feeling ashamed, worried and frustrated about ED

to feeling sexually confident and fulfilled

so that they can enjoy powerful love and magnificent sexual intimacy

even if ED occurs in the future.

The Course Guides You Through A Simple Roadmap to Success

ED Course Success Path

What Others Say About the Course

"Take it! And make sure you participate with your partner. Don’t wait!"
~ Steve
" The erectile dysfunction course blew me away.  I feel so much better about myself and I've been able to have much better sex. "
~ Jeff 
“There was a point in my marriage that I dreaded and avoided going to bed to keep from potentially failing. Not anymore. Now I approach bedtime with anticipation and excitement ready for our next adventure!”
~ Todd

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Be the first to find out when enrollment reopens in January 2023.


Pump Up Your Sex - Take Charge of ED

is for you if ... 


  • You want to learn in the privacy of your own home instead of 10-15 office visits with a sex therapist.

  • You are motivated to enhance your sexual wellness and feel sexually confident.

  • You want to learn how to have magnificent sex while coping with ED.

  • Erection-enhancing drugs aren’t fixing your ED.

  • You want to feel sexually confident and desired again.
  • You want to have magnificent intimacy with your spouse/partner.



Pump Up Your Sex - Take Charge of ED

is not for you if ...


  • You’re expecting a magic solution to fix erection issues. As you know, ED is complicated and challenging and hyping unrealistic and false expectations isn't fair to you.

  • You expect results without putting in the effort.

  •  You are not passionate about understanding your ED and are not open to changing your mindset about sex. 

  • You don't want to strengthen your relationship.

  • You are not willing to put in the time to follow the steps outlined in the course.

You Are Not Alone!


Does it feel like you are the only person you know with ED?

You aren’t!

One in every five men in the US has ED, and those numbers go up substantially as you get older. 

That’s a lot of people! 

But it often feels like you are the only person suffering from ED because no one talks about it.

When you feel alone with something, it makes it feel much worse.

My partner and I have been in your shoes and I know how bad it feels.

I don't want you to feel alone. 

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Why I Created This Course

As a middle-aged woman married to an older man, we both journeyed through sexual challenges.

It was very important for us to figure out how to create magnificent sexual intimacy. 

As a Certified Sex Therapist, I knew what we needed to do. I wanted to use my experience to help others.

I’ve treated hundreds of people with ED and know how it impacts my patients’ lives.

They feel so ashamed of their ED. They suffer alone. But they don't need to suffer.

I was getting calls from more men than I could help through traditional counseling.

I wanted to help as many people as possible live better lives despite ED, so I decided to create this course.

I’m so glad you are ready to get help to learn to manage ED.  You deserve to feel great about yourself and to feel sexually confident. 

What You Get in 

Pump Up Your Sex - Take Charge of ED

  • The latest content and current treatments that are backed by scientific research.
  • Self-paced video lessons.
  • The course is the equivalent of what I teach my clients in about 10-15 sex therapy sessions.
  • A comprehensive understanding of what is impacting your ability to get and keep erections.
  • Proven sex therapy techniques to enhance your erections and your sexuality.
  • Ways to increase your sexual self-confidence and experience magnificent sex.
  • Exercises to help you explore your sensuality and enhance erections.
  • Help for your partner to understand how to support you.
  • Help for you to learn how to support your partner.
  • A guide for your partner to team with you to explore your intimacy and create fulfilling, exciting and pleasurable sex.
  • Both medical and psychological treatments.
  • ED help for those recovering from prostate, testicular and penile cancer.

What You'll Learn


  • The facts and myths about manhood, sex and ED and how popular media sends us the wrong messages about what a real man is and what sex is.
  • How your body is wired to respond sexually and what you can do to increase your arousal.
  • How aging impacts your erections.
  • What causes erection issues.  Knowing the cause of your erection issues will help you to figure out what to do to enhance erections.
  • The role of anxiety and how it contributes to erection issues.
  • Medical and non-medical treatments to help you get and stay hard during sex.
  • What turns you on and pumps up your arousal.
  • How you and your partner can set up the right situation for magnificent sex.
  • Ways to expand your sexual pleasure.
  • How your partner can support you and team with you when you experience erection issues.
  • How cancer treatment impacts your erections.

Imagine One Year from Today ...

What does your intimacy look like?  Are you sexually confident?  Are you showing up in your relationships the way you want to?  Are you having the sex you want and experiencing pleasure and meaningful connection or are your erection troubles holding you back?

Sexy couple having sex

What Others Say About the Course


I learned so much about why I was having ED and what to do about it. My sex life really improved as a result of taking this course.


I never realized how much my worrying was keeping me from getting hard.  Now, I can get and stay hard most of the time.


Heather’s style made me feel comfortable and like I was pretty normal.  Just feeling that acceptance reduced my ED.

Does This Sound Like You?


  • You worry about your ability to get or keep an erection.
  • You've tried pills to get an erection but they don'y always work.
  • Your spouse or partner is upset about this.
  • ED and the lack of sex are causing problems in your relationship.
  • You can get hard while masturbating, but you can't stay hard enough for penetration.
  • You are really embarrassed about your erections and wonder what's wrong with you.
  • You have been experiencing ED more frequently.
  • Your doctor can't find anything that's causing  your ED.
  • You avoid sex because you're worried you won't get hard. 
  • You've been researching erectile dysfunction on the internet hoping to find a solution.

If any of these sound like you, then you are in the right place.

Stop feeling powerless about ED. Go from frustration and shame...

frustrated by erectile dysfunction
sexual confidence with erectile dysfunction

To sexual confidence, meaningful connection, and pleasurable sex

This master course is designed to teach you how to prevent and manage erection troubles using techniques taught by Certified Sex Therapists.

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Pump Up Your Sex - Take Charge of ED

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Course Outline


01:      Facts vs. myths about manhood, sex and ED

Learning to take charge of Erectile Dysfunction (ED) starts with you knowing the true facts about masculinity, sex, and ED and understanding how much of what we believe is really based on myths and media messages.

02:      Your body and how it responds sexually

Understanding what happens when you are aroused and how your body causes you to get or lose an erection is key to you learning what to do and what not to do when you want to be sexual. You will also learn how your body changes as you age.

03:      What causes ED

In this lesson, you’ll learn what causes ED and you’ll learn about how your masturbation techniques can impact your erections.  You will also learn the latest research on the impact of pornography on erections.

04:      How anxiety and our thoughts contribute to ED

This lesson will help you understand the huge role of anxiety and how it contributes to erection difficulties.  You will learn how your thoughts about sex and your sexual performance are impacting your ability to get or keep erections.  You will learn to identify and change harmful thoughts.

05:      Medical treatments for ED

In this lesson, you will learn about the major medical treatments for ED. You will also learn the role of lifestyle factors on erectile health and the importance of living a healthy lifestyle. 

06:      Non-medical treatments for ED

In this lesson, you will learn numerous techniques for managing erectile difficulties. You’ll challenge your definition of sex, learn what turns you on and off, learn techniques to relax and focus on the sexual experience, and learn ways to expand your sexual pleasure.

07:      Couples sex and intimacy

In this lesson, you will learn techniques to improve your nonsexual and sexual intimacy, including how to talk with your partner about sex, how to increase your connection and closeness within the relationship, how to set up a successful sexual experience and how to become a better sex partner.  

08:      Information for partners about ED

It’s very important for your partner to understand how to support you when you have erection troubles and to know that your erection difficulties are not because of them.  This lesson will teach them the information they need to know to help you with arousal and erections and to partner with you to create magnificent sex.

09:      New ways to be sexual

This lesson is for you and your partner (or just you if you don’t have a current partner) to plan ahead for how you will manage future ED so you are able to keep your cool and be flexible and create a great sexual experience despite having erection issues.

10:      Cancer and ED

This lesson addresses the impact of cancer treatment on erections and provides helpful techniques to improve your sexuality with a specific focus on prostate, testicular and penile cancers.  

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Eager to get help?

Enrollment opens again in early Feb 2023.  Until then, please download 5 Ways to Improve Erectile Dysfunction.  It might be all you need to improve your erection issues.