The Sexually Sovereign Woman

You've spent decades taking care of everyone else. Your sexuality got filed under "someday."

Someday when the kids are older. Someday when you're less exhausted. Someday when you feel more like yourself again.

But here's what no one told you: the version of yourself you're waiting to feel like doesn't exist yet — because she requires exactly the kind of work you keep putting off.

The Sexually Sovereign Woman is a live cohort experience for high-achieving women in midlife who are ready to do that work.

Over five intimate sessions, you'll excavate the beliefs, stories, and shame you inherited about sex — and replace them with something you actually chose. You'll finally understand how female desire works (not how you were told it works). You'll map your own erotic landscape: what turns you on, what shuts you down, what you need in order to actually show up. And you'll write a Sexual Sovereignty Statement — a personal declaration of who you are sexually, on your own terms.

This is not a libido fix. It is not couples therapy. It is not a list of techniques.

It is the comprehensive, honest, clinically grounded work of becoming the sexual woman you always suspected you were — before the world talked you out of her.

What you'll walk away with:

  • A clear understanding of how your history, beliefs, and attachment patterns have shaped your sexuality
  • Accurate, liberating information about how women's desire and arousal actually work
  • A personal erotic map: your gas and brakes, your context for great sex, your yes/no/maybe inventory
  • The language to ask for what you want — from a partner, and from yourself
  • Your Sexual Sovereignty Statement: your erotic ethos, authored entirely by you

Led by Heather England, PhD, LCP, CST — AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with 14 years of clinical experience helping women and couples reclaim their sexual selves. This is the work she does in her private practice, brought to a small, carefully held group.

Cohort size is intentionally limited. If this is calling you, put your name on the list.

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The workshop will be available on June 1, 2026